Sunday, May 18, 2008

macam2 cerita

Kak Norzailina memberikan ucapannya. cayalah, dengar khabarnya novel MENANTI KASIH mendapat sambutan yang amat menggalakan.
Antara tetamu yang hadir memeriahkan majlis. penulis2 juga tidak mahu ketinggalan untuk berposing sama.

Lily s, Liliy H, lynn, carrie, kak eka, dhiya dan kak lina berposing bersama mersik, junaidi dan en.nord.

Seingat aku sudah lebih dua minggu aku meninggalkan alam blog ini. Rasa sunyi pun ada sementelah aku telah mengenal dunia blogging ini semenjak 2 tahun yang lalu. Bekerja di perpustakaan ini ada masanya memang cukup menyenangkan. Tiada tekanan kerja berbanding di Library UPSI dahulu namun bila sampai saatnya musim sibuk, sampai hendak menjengah ke alam siber pun rasanya agak mustahil. Itulah yang berlaku sejak 2 minggu yang lalu. Bertambah lagi aku dilantik menjadi setiausaha kumpulan KMK, jadi sememangnya beban kerja aku semakin bertambah. siapa yang pernah terlibat dengan projek Kmk ni mungkin dapat membayangkannya. hahahaha...

Walaupun begitu, semalam aku sempat menghadiri sambutan hari jadi Selebriti Chef kita iaitu penulis tersohor, NORZAILINA NORDIN yang menyambut hari lahirnya dan juga novel terbarunya di pasaran; MENANTI KASIH. w/pun kami planning dengan masa yang cukup singkat, Alhamdulillah semuanya berlangsung dengan meriah sekali. bertambah pula dengan kehadiran pokcik Mersik yang mewakili ALaf21 FC, geng cari Forum; silence, aprilsnow dan Nicky Azrai ( akhirnya dapat juga bersua muka dengan mereka ini), carrie kirana dan rakannya. Tidak ketinggalan majlis itu dimeriahkan lagi dengan kedatangan Junaidi dan isterinya(msjbox) dan En. Norden, pengurus besar Alaf 21.

Terima Kasih juga dengan sokongan dan kerjasama penulis2 lain seperti, LYNN DAYANA ( yang sanggup datang walaupun malam sebelumnya rumahnya dipecah orang), EKA FAHARA, LILY HASLINA NASIR, LILY SURIANI yang nampaknya tidak menang tangan bagi memastikan kejayaan majlis yang kecil tapi meriah ini. malang sekali LAILA KAMILIA dan ROSE HARISSA tidak dapat bersama kerana ada hal yang tidak dapat dielakkan. Namun aku percaya semangat mereka tetap ada di sana semalam.


p/s- sila nikmati gambar2 yang disediakan.

Friday, May 02, 2008

How To Be Happy With Who You Are


Steps
1. Its important to bear in mind, that every human being in this world is different, no two faces or bodies are the same. Your 'inferiority' as you may refer to it, can also be seen as a unique or individual quality. What makes you feel these things are 'inferior' to everyone else?, if there is no norm amongst human beings, how can their possibly be any form of inferiority?.
"I'm soo happy, oh soo happy, happy and free!"


2. Out of everyone you see, most don't care or know about how you did poorly on your last math test, or how you have gained a little weight since last summer.

3. If you have a complex about a specific body part, that being your arms, legs, feet, hands, think hard about what makes them 'inferior' to everyone else, write this on paper if it helps. Seriously think about the logic of these, you're not going to seriously get stopped in the street for having what you think of as 'inferior' hands or feet and etc

4. What is it you fear will happen, upon the revealing of your inferiority to everyone else, do you fear people looking, making comments?. These are all valid worries but do bear in mind - everyone is different. Any comments you receive are invalid and must be ignored at all costs. Its absolutely certain there is something they think is wrong with them too.

5. If you find your inferiority difficult to deal with, enlist the help of a friend. Good friends will help you achieve your goals, what ever that may be. For limbs it may be to eventually be able (for leg complexes) to walk around in shorts. Good friends will tell you the truth, and you can work together on ways to make you feel better about yourself. If you find it difficult to talk with friends, ask them if they feel inferior sometimes, you may be surprised how worried people get

6. REMEMBER, you are NOT alone!

7. If you are male and feel 'inferior' and cannot seriously enlist the help of a friend for whatever reason, remember all of the above, and perhaps you can talk to a counselor if need be. If you have a girlfriend/wife or close friend who is female, they can also help you. Don't reject their help because they are female, they are better sources of information than fellow men could be.

8. Finally, if it helps, examine other people (not obvious staring). How do they react to their body, how to they show themselves, do they have a similar body type to you?, this could really help you reach your goals.

9. Respect yourself. Look in the mirror and give yourself compliments. If you don't respect yourself, who will?



Tips EVERY human being is DIFFERENT
- Think WHY do you feel you/certain parts of you are inferior? Write this down, think about this LOGICALLY, talk to friends or family
- There is no normal human being, and no normal framework for a human being, accept your differences in a positive manner, for instance "Yeah, i have big feet, but thats what makes me me!"
- Don't think of your DIFFERENCES as INFERIORITIES, class them as unique qualities that make you who you are.

- If it wasn't for those things, you'd be a generic, boring clone with no traits
- If you are overweight, underweight, short, or tall to the point that others see you as inferior due to those traits, throw their insults right back at them as jokes against yourself. Not only will you confuse them, you will make yourself laugh, therefore feel better about your uniqueness.
- Accept who you are!
- smile every day
- try hard
- It may seem other people are perfect, but really they have their own differences


Warnings

If your inferiority is physical, avoid looking in the mirror to much in the first stages, you will be constantly reminding yourself, and this helps nothing.
Never refer to your differences as inferiorities!
Never listen to ANYONE who puts you down
If others make fun of you laugh with them


Things You'll Need

- The mind-set to change
- Good friends
- Positivity
- a stable emotional state